How do you handle awkward starts or bad vibes?

[mr.fred.london]

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Hey guys,

Just wondering how others deal with that first moment after arriving. Like, how do you usually break the ice when you walk in the door?

Also curious how people handle it when the vibe just isn’t there? Like you’re not on the same page, and didn’t know what to do?

Cheers
Fred

[mr.fred.london]

Not much response, fair enough, it was a bit of a weird subject 

Anyway, I’ll share an awkward experience I had a while back. I met this girl at an apartment hotel where she had to come pick me up by the elevator. I had no idea she didn’t speak a single word of English, so there we were, standing in the elevator, me trying to make small talk and her just replying, “No English.” Bit of a weird moment.

Then walking down the hallway in silence… same thing in the room… and throughout the whole session, not a single word. She was also quite shy, so it all felt a bit stiff and awkward. She was sweet though, and we still had an okay time, but the lack of communication definitely made it a strange one 

[Chen]

Been there, done that 😅

I dont think there is any magic formula you can follow. It boils down to experience and your expectations on how much verbal interactions you will get. I bet your view on the exact same encounter would've been different if you beforehand knew she didnt speak a single English word  

[mr.fred.london]

Yeah, that could very well be. If you know from the start that communication will be different, it’s easier to adjust your expectations.

I’ve also met girls where there wasn’t much talking during the meeting, but knowing we could talk if we wanted to, made it way more relaxed for me 

[jegern]

På 8.7.2025 den 16.09, mr.fred.london skrev:

Also curious how people handle it when the vibe just isn’t there? Like you’re not on the same page, and didn’t know what to do?

An experienced and skilled escort is better than most of the guys here at all those things you mentioned, they can break the ice better than anyone, and find ways to vibe with you. 

Problem comes if they are visibly not interested in you and you have to carry the conversations, then the meeting is just going downhill from there, they are not even trying.

[Chen]

5 timer siden, Chen skrev:

verbal interactions you will get

Hate to be that comedian who has to explain their jokes, but I cannot resist to point out that I didnt use the word oral in the quoted sentence! 😝

[mr.fred.london]

16 timer siden, jegern skrev:

An experienced and skilled escort is better than most of the guys here at all those things you mentioned, they can break the ice better than anyone, and find ways to vibe with you. 

Problem comes if they are visibly not interested in you and you have to carry the conversations, then the meeting is just going downhill from there, they are not even trying.

I agree, but you don’t always strike gold. Sometimes it’s just a bit off, and that’s part of the game too, I guess.
 

[Idioten]

Unless you act like a moron there won't be much/any bad vibes with a good escort. They are experts at vibing with you like jegern pointed out. It's their job. Shitty escorts are shitty and there won't be much/anything you can do to salvage the situation. They are not into you and nothing you do or say can change the situation. Stick to the good escorts and you'll have a good time. Ask on the forum if in doubt

Also, wrong section. This section is for advice to new escorts.

[mr.fred.london]

På 20.7.2025 den 7.16, Idioten skrev:

Stick to the good escorts and you'll have a good time

I agree! But I’ve had a few weird experiences with expensive and/or well-reviewed girls. Still, it just ends up being a fun story to remember 😅