Do you usually visit girls, or have the girls come to you?

[mr.fred.london]

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Hey guys,

I visited my first girl in Oslo this week, and it got me thinking…

What’s most common here? Do you usually go to the girl’s place, or do you book a hotel or have her visit your home?

With the laws being what they are, does that change how you approach it? Like, do you see it as safer to go to her place instead of inviting someone over, or vice versa?

Curious what people here prefer and if there are any pros or cons I should be aware of.

Cheers
– Fred

[Chen]

I guess we make the same decisions as you do when you are at home in London. 

In terms of economics, incall is the cheapest option. Outcall is at a higher price, and if we are not able to host the meeting at home, then hotel room is an additional cost. 

In terms of the law, it doesnt affect my decisions the slightest. But I would never have an outcall to my place, cant risk my adress info in the wrong hands. 

@mr.fred.london, do you do outcall in London?

Endret Mai 30 av Chen

[SolanGundersen]

11 minutter siden, mr.fred.london skrev:

Hey guys,

I visited my first girl in Oslo this week, and it got me thinking…

What’s most common here? Do you usually go to the girl’s place, or do you book a hotel or have her visit your home?

With the laws being what they are, does that change how you approach it? Like, do you see it as safer to go to her place instead of inviting someone over, or vice versa?

Curious what people here prefer and if there are any pros or cons I should be aware of.

Cheers
– Fred

Maybe you can create a survey

It would be interesting to see what we prefer

[LoveOWO]

I do only incall. 

[Style]

Only visits/incalls

[jegern]

I would never invite someone over to my house, only incall. Even when outside Norway I do only incall. No hotel.

[Idioten]

10 timer siden, mr.fred.london skrev:

I visited my first girl in Oslo this week

Where's the report?

10 timer siden, mr.fred.london skrev:

What’s most common here?

Incall, by far and away. I'm prolly one of few here that have invited a girl to my place. Incall is both cheaper and safer.

[AlexanderLarsen]

If I trust the escort and my wife is not home I like home field advantage! Mostly I visit the escort at her hotel or apartment. 

[ZezeeRealBack]

As a escort,i would recommend you Incall for your own safety.Don’t do outcalls unless the place you are staying has a good security system.

In case of outcall:

Hide your valuable things .

Order the uber/transportation yourself to her.

Do NOT pay any amount over 500 kr in advance.If she order a uber,you can ask her to send a screenshot of the ride with the amount.

 

[karsten]

Never outcalls. That's my rule. Unless I know the girl, or she has wonderful reviews over time at a forum I know well. I have done outcalls in Copenhagen from girls I know. That's it.

Remember @mr.fred.london: You are the criminal in Norway. Not the girl.

Endret Mai 31 av karsten

[Emmie K]

It’s an interesting dynamic, because hobbyists prefer incalls while most local girls don’t offer them due to privacy concerns + risk of eviction. 

[mr.fred.london]

På 30.5.2025 den 10.40, Chen skrev:

I guess we make the same decisions as you do when you are at home in London. 

In terms of economics, incall is the cheapest option. Outcall is at a higher price, and if we are not able to host the meeting at home, then hotel room is an additional cost. 

In terms of the law, it doesnt affect my decisions the slightest. But I would never have an outcall to my place, cant risk my adress info in the wrong hands. 

@mr.fred.london, do you do outcall in London?

I imagine the decision is a bit different here, since it’s illegal. In London, it’s not. I really like outcall and often use it in London (and other countries), but I’m a lot more skeptical here because of the law.

That said, I always see them incall first, just to see if there’s chemistry and if the girl seems trustworthy. After that, I don’t mind seeing them at home

[mr.fred.london]

På 30.5.2025 den 21.01, Idioten skrev:

Where's the report?

Not going to be one. I’ll write if there’s something worth writing about (god or bad) 

[mr.fred.london]

På 31.5.2025 den 17.13, ZezeeRealBack skrev:

As a escort,i would recommend you Incall for your own safety.Don’t do outcalls unless the place you are staying has a good security system.

In case of outcall:

Hide your valuable things .

Order the uber/transportation yourself to her.

Do NOT pay any amount over 500 kr in advance.If she order a uber,you can ask her to send a screenshot of the ride with the amount.

 

Fair point. But I’ve never had any issues with anything being stolen.
I don’t pay upfront per se, but sometimes I cover the Uber or taxi (Which I guess is an upfront payment ).
No one has bailed on me so far.

[mr.fred.london]

20 timer siden, Emmie K skrev:

It’s an interesting dynamic, because hobbyists prefer incalls while most local girls don’t offer them due to privacy concerns + risk of eviction. 

Seems like all the girls offer incall? 

[Emmie K]

1 time siden, mr.fred.london skrev:

Seems like all the girls offer incall? 

Only a few Norwegian girls will. Travelling girls *always* do. 

[Idioten]

6 timer siden, Emmie K skrev:

Only a few Norwegian girls will. Travelling girls *always* do. 

Njaaaa, I'm with mr.fred.london:

7 timer siden, mr.fred.london skrev:

Seems like all the girls offer incall? 

Hvem er disse norske jentene som kun tilbyr outcall? Kjenner bare til Dina og TfN og de tilbyr incall såvidt jeg vet.

[Emmie K]

1 time siden, Idioten skrev:

Njaaaa, I'm with mr.fred.london:

Hvem er disse norske jentene som kun tilbyr outcall? Kjenner bare til Dina og TfN og de tilbyr incall såvidt jeg vet.

Vel, meg, et par til i Trondheim i perioder. Vet også om ei i M&R, samt noen flere i Oslo. Kanskje nærmere 50/50, men det er iallefall en betydelig andel som forståelig nok ikke tar imot besøk.